Results may vary. It is likely that you have seen this phrase in commercials which tout the benefits of their products. Don’t you wish that your mentors, colleagues, friends, and family would provide this disclaimer when giving you advice about your career? In my career I have listened intently to career success stories and followed well-meaning advice provided by individuals who have had successful and financially prosperous careers. I was told to network, get involved with professional organizations, and take on additional responsibilities at work. Although I followed their advice, I have yet to receive the accolades and compensation of these individuals. However, their advice has allowed me to network with many people and have a variety of career experiences. When I have shared the outcome of my efforts with colleagues, some were surprised that I had not been promoted because they knew that I had put in a lot of hard work.  A few acquaintances even questioned if I was working “hard” enough. This questioning caused me to ask myself if I was doing everything I could to achieve the success that I wanted.

 Factors that may inhibit your career growth

1.       Working in a toxic work environment.

If you find that leadership does not actively support professional development, it is time to seek other employment.

2.       Mindset

I have often heard the phrase: “It’s better to stay with the devil that you know, than the devil you don’t” as it relates to seeking a better career opportunity. This mindset cripples career growth.

Instead of doubling down on my job to the point of burnout, I decided to reevaluate my definition of a successful career. A successful career for me now includes acquiring professional skills (e.g., writing, content creation, and public speaking) that impacts others and enriches my professional and personal life.  Now when I’m questioned on why I haven’t received the career success that others have obtained, my response will be: “Thank you for your observation, but your experience is not my experience”.